Here's to the shaky breaths, the halfway-raised hands, and the courage to try again โ and again โ and again! ๐ฅ
Let me back upโฆ
Not everyone knows this, but I got laid off and it shook me more than I like to admit. I was forced to know who I was without that job. But slowly, I started finding my way back into tech through enrolling in a data science program, saying yes to things that scared me, and showing up โ even when I didnโt feel ready. Especially when I didnโt feel ready.
Last Friday, that meant showing up to the LaunchPad Summit in Stamford, CT.
Honestly, I thought of a thousand excuses not to go. But I told myself: just show up. The least that could happen is you get a LinkedIn headshot or get cast on a reality show. Win-win situation if you ask me.
Before the event, I came across one piece of networking advice that reframed everything: donโt go in expecting something tangible. Go to connect. Thatโs it. And somehow, that made everything feel lighter.
With a printed resume, a practiced intro, and absolutely zero chill, I walked inโฆ and I loved it. Here's what stayed with me:
โ ๐ ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌ: they lead you where you're meant to go.
โ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ: You donโt have to be a robot reciting your script. Real connection matters more than a perfect elevator pitch.
โ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ: every single panelist circled back to this. Attitude and going a little further than asked is what actually sets you apart.
โ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ฒ: No algorithm can replace a genuine human connection.
I almost didnโt go, but Iโm so glad I didnโt listen to myself this time ๐
Thank you Wanda Palma for putting this opportunity on my radar.
So grateful to Jon Winkel and the entire team โ the word I kept coming back to all day was โsupportโ. You built a room where people genuinely rooted for each other. That doesn't happen by accident.
To my cohorts from The Knowledge House, thank you for being my breather and cheerleaders throughout the event.
And to you, if youโre in the middle of starting over and it feels like everyone else has already figured it out โ ๐พ๐โ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ . ๐พ๐โ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐. ๐ฑ
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